I think there is a federal law requiring that whenever I write a post about divorce that at least one woman loudly worries that women will be “trapped in marriage”.
And by trapped, they of course mean for deciding they no longer wish to honor it.
Solomon was able to convince a 23 year old woman to send him a partially nude picture of herself. She has had over 20 years to enter into commitment if she so chose.
Gilbert felt as despondent as the novel claims, then she’s justified in ending the marriage.The only question is if it pleases them for an hour, a night, a month, a year, or a decade.As men become wise to the lack of commitment they are in turn withdrawing their investment. What clouds this issue is the near total denial of the reality of the situation. This is perhaps the most important message we need to send young men. Once a man understands this and truly internalizes it he can act accordingly.A victim exists if unjustifiably imposed upon by some immoral act or actor, i.e. You’re not a victim simply because your wife no longer loves you.I bring up One STDV’s comments only to make it clear how universal this view is.